Unluckytoo2

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2025-01-05 06:50:20

My(21f) guy friend (21m) kinda scares me

Oh my. Your concern is with your safety, not whether or not you’re being a “bad friend”. Those are not normal things to say and are indicative of something he is thinking about frequently. Having a girlfriend you’re close with does not make him incapable of harm. He doesn’t even have a fully developed frontal lobe yet, the damage he is fully capable of is yet to be done.

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It’s really hard for me to let go of friends but I’ll try to follow my gut instinct. I’m just curious, why the grey rock method and not just ignoring them completely?

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I had to let go of my own brother, who was one of my best friends, once he was exposed as a pedophile before being convicted and imprisoned. If anyone knows how hard it is, its me. But you cannot risk your or your loved ones’ safety. If someone is fantasizing about rape, kidnapping, and murder, they’re likely to retaliate when angry or ignored… especially if they think you’re onto them. He’s let the mask slip in front of you. This is why Grey Rock method.

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oh my… I’m so sorry you had to go through that :( I can’t even imagine how difficult that must have been. I really hope you’re doing better now. thank you for offering such honest advice i’ll make sure to follow it!

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