What lines have people said to you that you took as immediate red flags for toxicity?

One of mine is, "That's not abuse. I had it worse. I WISH I had been 'abused' like that!!"

My cousin said this to me to side with my abusive mother, and a random Redditor said it today 🙃 No need to compete in the Trauma Olympics 🚩

What are some that you've heard? Which lines tell you to stay away from someone, especially when it comes to talking about trauma?