Help me decide!

Throw away so my FH doesn’t accidentally see this. Help me decide between these dresses! I bought the first one and immediately felt like I made the wrong choice from being rushed. It’s beautiful but in my gut something didn’t feel like it’s the one and I don’t love the way the top fits me. I feel super confident and pretty in the second one but some people have said they like the first one better. Both are unaltered so keep in mind the fit isn’t perfect as they stand. Thanks!