I’m so torn, help me pick!

Agonizing is part of my typical decision making process, so please give me more to think about!!!

The venue is a Northern California coastal lodge, combo of oceanside cliffs, a gorgeous bay, and woodland. I don’t feel super attached to having a dress that “matches” the theme, but photography/videography is super important so I am considering how each of these will photograph. The overall vibe I want for the wedding is to feel like Shelley Duvall Fairie Tale Theatre (please tell me someone’s heard of it) and Phantom of The Opera. Like a spooky fairytale. Oh also I’m 5’10” and will be wearing heels.

Dress 1 (pics 1-2) was a dark horse for me, I was not expecting to like a ballgown but this one makes me feel like Anastasia (1997) or Mia in the Princess Diaries. And I LOVE the gloves.

Dress 2 (pics 3-6) has been on my Pinterest since before I tried any dresses on and has been a big favorite for me. Not sure if I’d go with that veil, but would 100% do the sleeves.

Dress 3 (7-8) and 4 (9-10) both remind me of the ocean. Dress 3 looks like coral floating in water and dress 4 feels like a kelp forest pattern. My engagement ring is custom with a sapphire and carved seashells, so I do love the vibe there. Not sure if I’m as in love with the fit compared to the first two? Definitely curious on people’s thoughts there.

I have another appointment next month to try on favorites with veils and accessories, so hoping to go in with an idea of what else to think about before making a decision. Also I know my stylist lurks here sometimes so if you see this hi Sabrina!!!