Advice for all future brides

As someone who OBSESSED about her wedding dress, second guessed and then second guessed some more, cut the sleeves off, debated buying a different dress, literally cried through whole nights about the dress...

Some advice I wish someone would have given me.

No, you're not too fat for the dress. Your back fat doesn't matter, your arms are fine as they are.

If you can't decide between more than two dresses, you haven't found your dress yet.

Before you try on dresses, conceptualize the vibe of your wedding and imagine how you want your wedding dress to look like. Decide on most important features. Then go with that.

Trying on dresses and falling in love with a dress that's completely different than what you though you wanted? That's fine, you'll kill it!

Go with your gut and then DONT LOOK BACK. Unsubscribe from this subreddit. Don't look at more dresses. Do not second guess yourself. I promise, it's not worth the stress.

Be bold. You want color? Amazing! You want a short dress? Go for it. Don't let other people's opinions or traditions or conventions dictate your choice.

Plan in the costs for the alterations, they're more pricey than you think.

Don't go into debt for an expensive dress. And don't be afraid to pick a 'cheap' or 'not bridal enough' dress. You decide. Yes, it could be a prom dress out of a catalogue, or a sundress, don't let the description throw you off.

And most importantly, again, don't look at more dresses. Once you have your dress, that's it. It's your dress. I repeat, do. Not. Look. At. More. Dresses.

Did I forget something? Probably. But most of all, don't stress over tiny details, they won't matter.