I messed up my whole college

First two years I was in cs. First year went ok. meh grades. enough to get into cs program. Second year i messed up and got into academic suspension the following year after that. Granted everything was online but I became lazy. Following the third year where everyone returned to campus I was on academix suspension. Fallen to my lowest. My parents think i am graduating when in reality I am two and a half years behind. I cant even show my face to my friends anymroe or family. I've only taken electives toward my degree in the 4th year all. Too ashamed to even tell anyone where i'm at. Seeing everyone graduate on time.