Opinions on whether or not to skip months trying to avoid a December baby

Backstory, some of my closest friends have December birthdays and have complained about them their entire lives. They always feel like they can’t have a party because friends are spending time with their families and they feel their birthday is overshadowed by Christmas. My partner and I are trying to decide if we want to just skip Feb-April to avoid a December baby. (Which is unfortunate because we finally decided to start trying next month.) Is it selfish of me to try and (maybe) get pregnant and have a December baby? I feel sad that they may never get to celebrate their birthday in school by bringing in treats and getting their name announced or not having friends available to go to their parties. I also feel bad that they may feel overshadowed by Christmas and it doesn’t feel fair to them. I also am worried about having a newborn at Christmas parties where people could be sick so our first born (son) would miss out because we would all have to stay home. I know pregnancy may not happen but I’m worried about the what if it does happen. We really want another child and really want to start trying. Would it be okay to just try anyway? Am I just majorly overthinking everything? Am I crazy for thinking this far ahead when we haven’t even started trying? 😂 Help a girl out please with some advice! Thank you in advance.