reassurance vs warnings

How can you tell if your guides are reassuring you or warning you? I’ll usually ask my guides for reassurance by asking for a specific symbol with an angel number or my favorite number attached. For example, I asked my guides for reassurance about union with my ex because in my gut I feel like our relationship isn’t over. So in my head, I asked to see Mario Cart or Uno with her birth date or our anniversary date attached, and I saw it while scrolling on TT almost instantly. It was a video of a deck of Mario Cart themed Uno cards with 234.

This is just one of several instances. Most times whenever I’m thinking about the situation, I’ll see angel numbers or her birth date or our anniversary date. But I just found out my ex got back with her ex and I can’t help but think they could have been warning signs instead. But then also my gut tells me they weren’t warning signs. And I also think why would my guides show me a positive sign if that wasn’t the case?

Also, I know TikTok readers are most of the time total bullshit. But I only stop and listen to one if I see an angel number attached (like the amount of likes/comments) or has a specific symbol I ask my guides for. And the reading always resonates when that happens.

Maybe it’s just a matter of ignoring the 3D and that this is part of what brings together the union, but now I just feel like I’m overthinking everything and that my gut could have been wrong.