tradwife turned single mom

i’m 21 years old and up until a month ago i live a very traditional lifestyle. i didn’t drive or work, my main focus was the baby and cooking. i suffered from pretty bad post partum the first ten months and could have done more for my relationship but he was bad at communicating. i was 19 when i got pregnant and offered an abortion and he swore he would stay and take care of us. anyways, i desperately need advice on things like learning to drive but mostly getting my own place.

i have a job interview on the 3rd of next month but its a first come first serve type job so im not sure what to expect, it pays pretty well and im excited to just get out of the house. i have no idea how to start looking into income based living or section eight or anything. any advice on stuff like that would be wonderful.

also, for those of you who still loved your baby’s dad when they left how did you get over it ? it’s tearing me apart and i cry constantly. he’s already talking to new girls and i know i should move on but i see him so often and we were always so vulnerable with each other. i miss his company and comfort.