I don't understand this subreddits opinions of Joe & Melissa

Ok, in a vacuum, the stuff they post on social media platforms can be cringe at times. But where it matters; they seem to love each other, be good parents who instil the right values, have stellar work ethics and are generally respected by their sane peers. I think on the whole, it's weird to throw them so much hate.

Relative to others on the show, namely Tree and Louie, the notion that you could side against them is baffling to me. Tree has seemed unhinged for a while now, has involved her daughters in efforts of pitting them against their aunt and uncle and don't even get me started on the bizarre way Louie has/does conduct himself. Also, Melissa has put up w the craziness of her sister in law 10+ years past the point I would've, seemingly for the benefit of her inlaws/husband/kids.

I don't know why the opinions against Joe and Melissa Gorga are so strongly negative, but am more than willing to hear/am curious about this subreddits negative feelings towards them.