My boyfriend annoys me when we call
My (21f) boyfriend (23m) annoys me when we talk on discord
My (21f) bf (23m) are medium distance. We don’t see eachother very often, maybe once a week/every other week. When we aren’t together we text sometimes but also sometimes call.
The calls are very empty, we don’t talk about anything really. I feel like I try to bring out discussions but it doesn’t really feel interesting to him.
I don’t mind being quiet in a call at all. It’s just that he plays video games while we do and he only complains and swears during the whole call, it ruins my mood and I get really frustrated. When he does talk to me he only talks about the video games that I don’t play myself.
It’s fine in real life, but maybe I’m just boring to talk to. I don’t know. Is this an okay dynamic?