Other people’s opinions

How do you all deal with other peoples comments and opinions and how they treat you? Sometimes I feel like people think my recurrent loss is contagious and they stay far away from me. Then you have people asking you to take a break?! Why does anyone think they have the right to tell you to take a break? They say they’re worried about you but have no idea what you’re going through. Why would anyone ever tell someone else to take a break from trying to start their family? It’s wild. These people have absoloutely no idea what they’re talking about but how do you try to tell them that nicely?