Am I the only one starting to hate it here?

Before I get mean comments, hear me out. I have lived in Raleigh since 2012 (graduated from NC State) and used to think I couldn’t live anywhere else. Now that my husband and I are about to have our first baby, I am starting to feel frustrated by the traffic, over population, cost of living, lack of options for decent public school, and overall feeling generally unsafe in some areas. Is anyone else feeling this way or is it just me?