How many people have had one miscarriage and then had successful pregnancies?

Unfortunately I lost my bean this week-

I told my friend who comforted me by saying that having successful pregnancies is actually harder than you’d think and to maybe look into surrogacy instead of trying again… this friend also told me the stats of miscarriages ten minutes after I tested positive.

I know I’m still processing my loss- but now I’m even more terrified.

So I wanted to reach out and ask so I can get her comments out of my head cause it just keeps replaying, so I can be hopeful.

I know it’s never a guarantee but I’ve been wishing I never told this friend - she told me I shouldn’t tell anyone when I first found out and I’m so glad I did because she hasn’t checked in on me at all because she been pretty busy even though she mentioned she thought I was going to die ( think I need new “friends”)

Edit:

Thank you all so much! ❤️‍🩹😩

I’m so sorry we have all all experienced this kind of loss at least once but I’m feeling hopeful, even though I’m not ready to try again- (I mean I’m still not done recovering physically still cramping and dealing with the things since Thursday(and not emotionally ready) yet either).

This friend I’ve known for years- my mom actually passed away so I don’t have a big support system- and I thought she would be good to tell in case something were to happen, and I instantly regretted telling her it was positive and then even telling her in lost it too. (I’ve been there for through everything even if I couldn’t relate or know what to say)

I did tell some coworker/friends and I’m glad I did- they have been reaching out and even just checking in, and that’s meant the world to me- even more so I know there isn’t much anyone can say or do to make it feel okay at the moment- just a simple text has been so nice to see.

I did tell my MIL about it too, and let’s just say there wasn’t a lot of support or anything there either. ( also sharing not trying to sound even more pathetic or sad sharing that either haha)

so I really can’t tell you all how much your support, comments and your stories are helping me right now. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹