Dating is so shallow now

No because why do I need to have instagram, follow my partner, post pictures of us in very specific places or poses, do "sounds" and "dances" with them, get matching profile pictures, send trendy content, and overall just date them for everyone else to see. It's really so hard to find someone to date who doesn't devote a fifth of their week to social media at the point. And this isn't even about online dating, I'm talking about people you'll meet in real life too who want to do this because it'll boost their follower count or make them more popular. I just want to find someone who doesn't care about all that, and wants to go out just to go out, not to post it later that night on their story.