My brother passed away in November and while I was crying to my mom about him seeing my Dad in heaven she says to me “WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE WANT TO SEE YOUR FATHER FIRST???

Who says that to someone who’s grieving a sibling??? She’s mad at my Dad for something he did to HER 30 years ago. Yesterday after working on packing up his apartment with my other 2 brothers she has the nerve to criticize some of the stuff we did. “Why pay a junk hauler for the rest, of course your sister n law took that she’s a HOARDER, you mean you STILL haven’t cleaned out the refrigerator. And so on. I have no idea how someone could be so heartless and lack empathy to their own daughter. Thank you for listening. I feel so lost.