Normalize losing and it not being blamed solely on 1 person

Every game I play whether it be with randoms or my friends if you lose there is always a "him playing with____" screwed us or "our healer was trash" "dps was trash" "____ should've played with so and so".

Sometimes you just get your ass kicked and it is what it is.

That and stop trying to bully people into picking a character how about YOU play with that person