How to handle breakup no weed

Hello i stopped smoking weed around 2ish years ago, i relapsed a couple times in the past 6 months and hated it. I was in an on again off again codependent relationship and i tried using the weed to cope/distract but that’s not a vice for me. I’ve asked my friends how they deal with their break ups and they mostly just said they’ve smoked to help them distract but i obviously can’t do that anymore. I used weed as a coping mechanism for years and even though im happy ive quit sometimes i wish i could just have a different state of mine in mere minutes. I’m struggling hard. Any advice?