Can i get some insights…on Kashmiri men

I’m a Delhiite, and I’ve recently started seeing this Kashmiri guy (he’s from Baramulla, apparently). There’s nearly a decade of an age gap between us, which, to be honest, I find incredibly attractive.

I’ve never dealt with Kashmiri guys personally, and they don’t exactly have the best reputation among Delhi women . Plus, given his age, I can’t help but wonder—what if he’s got a wife and kids back home in Kashmir?

That said, he’s been so sweet to me—like crazy sweet. Or maybe it’s just the way he speaks; the accent definitely makes everything sound nicer. He’s a bit on the lame side, but I think that might just be the age gap showing, and weirdly, I’m into it.

If his intention is just to hook up, I don’t think it’ll work out—mainly because I’m a lot to handle, and the amount of effort and patience I require isn’t exactly “hit it and quit it” material. I feel like if that’s all he’s after, he wouldn’t last long anyway.

As for me, I’m more focused on getting to know him better before making any decisions about dating. Romance isn’t a priority for me right now, given where I am in my professional and academic life.

I know everyone’s different, but I’d really appreciate any insights, warnings, or advice about navigating this dynamic—just so I don’t end up getting blindsided.