Dating as a male ISFJ

Rant + question

Just wanted to say it’s sucks (the majority of us guys always have to make the first move, on top of providing the initial spark - we ISFJ are the reactive type and we shine more in keeping that spark going). All the ISFJ guys I know got picked up by the girl; the girl made the first move and she provided that initial spark; he just tagged along. A great question is, those dating or married to a male ISFJ...did he make the first move or did you pick him up? It would be interesting to see what the difference is.

My parents are literally about to set up some arrange marriage for me. May the odds forever be in your favor, other male ISFJ 🤣✌️!