how do you deal with someone who constantly puts you on the spot?

i am 17f introvert, and i've realized throughout interactions that i hate being put on the spot in social situations. particularly, i go to a catholic church, and my family is close with the priest of the church. however, he is a very outgoing person, and at first impression, i liked him very much. but as i continued interacting with him, he always puts me on the spot with questions, actions all leading me to grow uncomfortable and even tear up/hide my crying in front of others. at this point its happened so many times, i doubt he isn't aware of me tearing up and getting red each time.

tonight, my family invited him over for dinner. they were touring the house, and came across my room, where i have drums and piano. he asked me to play them and i respectfully declined, saying i wasn't comfortable to. my parents complained and continued saying "she's shy" even though they are fully aware (i even told them in advance) that i would not play for anyone. i usually play only to myself, not even my parents see me play.

i decided maybe i was being dramatic, so i gave myself a chance to calm down, then returned to where the family was talking with the priest to try again to talk to him. but instead, almost instantly, he put me on the spot asking me questions i don't know the answer too. what am i doing wrong? why does this keep happening. i'm tired of trying and keep getting upset at his actions.

because of all these interactions i've associated him with my feelings of anxiety and crying, making me not like him (which keep in mind, he's supposed to be my "spiritual father") and the point i have the most is i feel horrible, since i know he is a nice person and tries to please everyone, but he seems to only make me feel uncomfortable and want to avoid him. is this my fault?