Thoughtful love is honestly one of the best things you can give an INFJ

I think what truly makes an INFJ feel loved is unconditional acceptance. When someone actually takes the time to let you know that they really “see” you.

My best friend once surprised me with the most thoughtful gift. It was my birthday back then and I had no expectations at all. I opened the box and to my surprise, it was filled with a bunch of things I like. My favorite tea, candies, a book by an author I said I wanted to read, and even this oddly specific pictures of my dog and work-related stuff we joked about months ago. The fact that she paid attention and went out of her way to show me how much she cares, I honestly felt like tearing up. Every item was so personal and thoughtful.

This is the same person who sees parts of me that I’m afraid might be judged, and they don’t treat me any differently.

Idk it’s just crazy to me to have someone who gives back the same love and care you put out, and sometimes even more.

My fellow INFJs, please nurture these people and never let them go. They’ll be some of the biggest blessings in your life.