I wish carrying bags wasn’t considered feminine

I personally don’t think carrying around a bag is necessarily feminine, I don’t think twice if I see another guy with a messenger bag or something. However, one of my bosses when I worked at a grocery store knew I was trans and would call my bag my “purse” I corrected her and all she said was “whatever”. It’s easier for me to carry around a bag because I like brining my iPad with me places and it’s too big to just carry, I also keep the basics (wallet, gum, etc) with me. I just hate how so many people think carrying a bag is feminine and it makes me a little dysphoric sometimes.