Is Feeld dead for cishet men?

M53. I made a post about Feeld the other day and one of the comments was like "the vanillas have invaded and it sucks" and another was like "the bros have found Feeld and it's over".

In the past few weeks:

Feeld: purchased 20 pings, sent them all, zero new matches. I have matches but they're all dead conversations or somebody that I have met and didn't click with. Edit: I have about nine matches from prior to ~8 weeks ago.

Hinge: sent a bunch of likes (and a couple of free roses), got a few matches, one date, a couple of women that bailed when we talked more (and it was the right choice, I was on the fence about them)

Tinder: signed on for a month of platinum because it was on discount. sent maybe eight intro messages and a bunch of super likes. I think I got a total of 12 matches, one of them turned into a regular FWB (distance) and two others have relationship potential

About the Feeld pings: no, I don't open with sexual messages. Yes I have a good profile. I have gotten my profile reviewed by r/nonmonogamy and the consensus was it was pretty good. No, I don't message women that are far outside of my age range, I'm not over here trying to hook up with 22-year-olds. There's nothing overly sexual in my profile. I don't send dick pics if you're thinking that's the problem. My intro messages are not one word long and they do indicate that I have read the profile.

So just based on my experience: this app ain't going to work for me. Which is a shame because I think this is where most of the non-monogamous women are hanging out. But there's so many trashy dudes that are trying to jam themselves into this wading pool that I think the decent ones get lost in the noise.

What say y'all?