How do you explain enjoying dubcon content as not "romanticizing rape"

For discussion purposes. I keep seeing comments on book Tok about how those of us need psychological help because we enjoy dubcon or noncon content. 😅 Listen. I'm a kinky bitch and the concept of dubcon appeals to my baser instincts and in my own bedroom it is a thing with my partner. I can't help it. I like what I like lol. That being said IN REALITY dubcon and noncon is a different matter. They're two different things and people equating dubcon fictional content to IRL rape romanticizing.... People need to touch grass. IDK it's been a subject I've seen come up a few times since the kallmekris debacle and I'm annoyed.