Is it always about WAR?

Sorry if this rant is a repeated one, but I’ve repetitively had to pause my reading on a couple series (broken kingdoms, daughter of no worlds) because after the initial world building and main characters getting together it’s always inevitably about WAR and unending battles… I’ve come to realize I like the magic in fantasy but war kind of makes me anxious and I struggle through it. Anyone have any good romantasy book recs that are about anything else? I have already read Phantasma, Noctacadia, Anathema, Villains and virtues, Paladins Grace, Poison Study and all these were great books that had refreshingly different plots. More, please! 🙏🏼🥺