Well-Written Romantasy?

Hello! I’m about to be finished with ACOTAR and am dreading it. Something I struggle with when it comes to romantasy is: I’m really pretentious when it comes to the quality of the writing. I struggled through Fourth Wing, but was floored by how much better the writing was in ACOTAR. I particularly liked how it dealt with PTSD and none of the romance felt rushed or (especially!!) non-consensual. I feel like a lot of fantasy books show horrible things happening to the characters and the characters being fine after a week, or even the next day — I find this so difficult to believe and it takes me out of the story. Any romantasy that you’d recommend that’s well-written with dynamic characters and consensual sex?