Facebook dating verification, need help

I just joined fb dating today and after a while i got asked to submit a video selfie so they can verify if it's really me... I did that and it says that i have to wait for the decision now and i'm actually kinda panicking... because first: how long will it take, does anybody know? And second: is there any chance that the people who were chatting with me on that see that my profile is waiting for the verification or are they forced to think that I abandoned them...? I'm just speechless, I just feel so bad because it looks like I just ran away in the middle of the conversation. Please, any help?