These frigging letters!

I’m I the only one with this issue?

My DUI was 16 years ago in Michigan when I was in my 20s. I am now 40. Since then I moved to Chicago… got married, have a child and recently moved to the suburbs where I know nobody except my neighbors. I have no friends and have been very private about my situation. I was denied in August because my letters were mostly from people out of state (this is my small circle).

I have confided in one person here plus my husband. I can’t ask my neighbors. They are teachers at my kids school. I just started a new job (can’t tell them) and I go to counseling remotely. I have nobody that lives in proximity to me that I see regularly. I don’t socialize… I go to work, I pick up my kid and I come home then work a second job remotely.

I have nobody that lives near me that I talk to on a regular basis that I am comfortable sharing this information with. People think I don’t drive because my husband and I share a car. What do I do?