What happened to manners

There’s something super condescending about the instructions being “Hand me the order” with no tip. I saw there was no tip but the directions said to hand it to me, so naturally I thought Ok cool cash tip. No. And then they didn’t speak just held out their hand and looked annoyed. I said have a good day & got an eye roll with an “ahuh”. I get it, we all have bad days but come on 🙄