“You’re a strong woman I knew you’d be okay?

I(32) just reunited with a guy (35) I dated 3 years ago. I moved to his country ( not because of him ) and we live 6 hours by car from each other.

Friday he drove to my city so we can spend time with each other. It’s been good until last night.

I went out to an event alone and he went to meet one of his friends. The event went longer than expected. Around 9, I asked him if he could meet me half way because it would take an hour and a half to get to the hotel. He responded by telling me I should get a taxi. This is despite taxis being extremely expensive and I told him multiple times that I don’t always internet connection.

Anyways, I took public transportation and had to walk 18 minutes to the hotel. The walk was through a forest and a dirt road. I was scared because it was past midnight.

I arrived at the hotel and he’s sound asleep. It bothers me a lot that he was sleeping so soundly when he didn’t even know where I was.

I tell him I walked through a forest, he asks “were you scared?” Duuuuuh!

In the morning I explain to him that it bothered me a lot that he wasn’t worried and didn’t even check on me once.

First he was dismissive and told me I should have just gotten a taxi, nothing was going to happen to me in the forest because it’s not dangerous and if I could text him, surely I could have gotten a taxi.

I told him, maybe it’s because if it was him who was out, I would have checked on him.

He proceeds to tell me I wasn’t in a forest but a cemetery and then says “you’re a strong woman, I knew you’d be okay!” I literally don’t know how to respond to that. I just thought it’s best I pack my bag and go home.

Am I overreacting here? I just feel unheard and my feelings dismissed