Are my standards too high?
A little background first, I’m a 25yo dude & have only ever been in one real relationship. I don’t want meaningless hookups anymore. But I can’t seem to find anyone that I would want to be with as I have basic standards. I’ve had options, but for one reason or another they just aren’t what I’m looking for in a potential life partner.
My 5 standards are:
- No kids
- Not addicted to substances or alcohol
- Has aspirations in life to grow & learn
- Some intelligence
- Takes care of themselves
(Bonus) Has similar hobbies & interests.
Obviously I have some rules to myself like nobody under 21, but like that’s kinda it. I don’t believe my standards are that high, and maybe I should accept the fact that dating apps just aren’t worth it unless you look like a supermodel.
I’m a decent looking dude above 6 feet, nothing crazy, and I take care of myself, have a bachelor’s degree, recently got laid off but I’m busting my ass to find new work & I have my own space.
What do y’all think? I hate being alone but I also don’t want to just settle and not be happy.