I am attracting the wrong people

Hey everyone, I am looking for a partner with deep connections, who is highly empathetic, and can see beyond societal expectations and doesn’t view themselves through society’s lens. Is not materialistic, has goals and hobbies that aren’t defined by societal norms (for example, their hobby isn’t just swiping on Tinder). Has strong values, is selective with their partners and surroundings, and genuinely wants and is capable of commitment.

I know I’m asking for a lot, but for some reason, I keep attracting people who are the complete opposite.

How, and where can I find a partner like this?