Men, are you attracted to your female friends?

I (25F) see conflicting information online about this where male friends are supposedly attracted to their female friends and that it’s nearly impossible to maintain a platonic relationship between the two genders. What are your thoughts on this? From my experience, all my guys friends at one point expressed romantic interest in me so I don’t really have male friends anymore :( how do you know if they secretly do like you more than a friend? I’ve been blindsided several times and don’t want to repeat the same mistake :/