Kind of wish people would realise how expensive and how much responsibility there is in it with a child before having them

Maybe it would make them think twice, But people always dismiss it way too often and don’t think before having kids. It’s not only expensive money wise but also expensive with the energy in raising them with so much responsibility. That’s why people shouldn’t judge others who choose not to have kids, they’re also a huge responsibility and they’re emotionally and psychologically fragile, one fuck up is enough for the child to have mental health problems in later life. Children should only be for the parents who want kids and can handle the burdens and who are finically stable, not for people who don’t want any or can’t look after one properly if the person wants a child, otherwise it doesn’t make any sense.