Value outside of my body

How have you guys learned to value yourselves outside of your body. I’m 22F and I realized that I like to show off my body?? I don’t wear crop tops, or clothes with cleavage anymore, but I do wear tight clothes. I do multiple sports and spend abt 15+ hours a week doing exercise so I’m proud and want to show it off. My family really values athleticism so I think that plays a role. My arms are ripped, I have abs, huge hip dips, and muscular legs. I just like that people can see that I work out because it’s part of my identity.

But beyond that, my academic success and personal growth is what I’m more proud of. I love who I am and what I do.

So why is it that as I’m planning a trip somewhere cold I’m trying to figure out what I can wear that u can still see my shape in. I like looking cute for my husband but he literally thinks I’m the cutest thing in the world w my robe on, a bonnet, and no makeup. And he’s the only man I care about looking good for. It’s some sort of weird validation from myself I need.

Pls give me advice on how to get rid of the desire to show off my figure or share any similar experiences

Edit: I think it’s truly just my style preference. I feel cute when u can’t see any part of my body as long as the clothes are stylish, well made, and fit right. I’m also being a bit dramatic because I’m just talking jeans and a fitted tee but I think it’s more abt the overall look. Like I just don’t like the way a loose tee looks because the outfit looks messy. Also Ty for all the support ladies ❤️