Recently turned 24, so here are 24 things I have learned in the past 24 years…
1. Exercise everyday even if it’s just for a few mins. There’s just a type of confidence you get from it that I cant really explain
2. Always keep your dignity high even if you’ve got nothing in your pockets
3. Don’t mix vodka shots with any drink cause it will f*ck you the f*ck up 💀
4. Communicate if something is bothering you. People are not gods. How do you expect them to know what’s in your mind?
5. You can’t change a person. Those small pink flags you overlook in the beginning are the huge ass red flags that will destroy everything in the future
6. It’s crazy how people gossip like maaaaad but at the end no one really gives a f*ck. Don’t let it bother you. People talk no matter what. Live your life. Don’t allow rumors to destroy your friendships or relationships. If you hear something about somebody, ask them! Don’t believe everything you hear.
7. DO NOT DEPEND ON A HUMAN BEING FOR YOUR HAPPINESS‼️‼️Humans are humans. We all make mistakes. We all disappoint from time to time. Joy and peace comes from within, from God.
8. There will always be someone better than you. Some people have more talents, others are smarter, others are prettier, others are richer. It’s just what it is. Be thankful and appreciate what you have ❤️ Don’t compare yourself to others
9. Dating without the intent of marriage is just a waste of time and tears
10. Do physical check ups and tests. Go and get a pap smear done. You just never know, AND its much better to detect something early on rather than later
11. If you are a student, study EVERY DAY, even if it’s just for one hour
12. Blocking, ignoring, unfollowing and deleting someone out of your life is not a sin. It’s self care. Don’t feel guilty about protecting your mental health 🤌
13. Ask Reddit.
14. Never idolize a person more than God. Your partner and friends should push you closer to God, not distract you from God.
15. The world is wayyy too small. Especially with the use of the internet? Everybody knows everybody these days
16. Use protection. And no, pull and pray does not count
17. Always keep your promises no matter what. Show up. Get it done.
18. Have a daily to do list 📋
19. Enjoy life and have fun, but not too much fun 😉
20. Generosity is one of the best ways to determine if a person truly cares for you. Ladies, I’m not just talking about your manz. I’m talking about your female friends too.
21. Real heroes don’t wear capes. Truly successful people don’t flex. They’ve got nothing to prove to you 🤷♀️
22. Take 👏 your 👏 time. Don’t just jump into a new relationship or friendship. It’s very easy for people to pretend to be something they are not, especially in the beginning.
23. Delete social media apps from time to time when they become overwhelming. Use the hours you spend scrolling to do something productive.
24. Stand in front of a mirror and talk positive things to yourself. I know it sounds silly but you really are your best cheerleader. Your thoughts are powerful.
Aaand many many more but these are the ones that I could think of off the top of my head. Thank you for reading! 🥹