I’m so sick of lily

Since when was being authentic enough? I’m sorry but if you’re authentically a selfish person that doesn’t put you above everyone else. To me that’s worse because you know you’re selfish and you stand on it as if it’s something to be proud of. She also demands people speak to her like she’s grown but acts like a complete toddler. When Thomas did pull her up on her behaviour she just said she doesn’t care pretty much. I don’t get why we’re idolising this behaviour. Please tell me i’m not the only one. (Just for reference i’m not some angry bitter old person i’m a 21 year old female from Australia)