To the Young Women seeking Marriage-Minded Men, Don’t listen to Winter.
As one of the few straight male listeners (I stumbled across the pod on IG lol), I can say that Winter gives really bad advice and outlooks on men. The most recent example is yesterday’s discussion about Travis Hunter’s GF who has been very rude and disrespectful towards him in public. Winter said that her new guy and his friend were talking about how big of a red flag (eg opportunist, gold digger, etc) Travis’ GF appears to be and Winter dismissed any man pointing that out as gay. No, the GF’s behavior is a major turnoff to any self-respecting man.
The thing with Winter is she attracts a lot of newly rich, young athletes and entertainers who just want to smash and they’ll tolerate her attitude and behavior for a few months. Younger women may be led astray by her advice from seeing what she’s able to get from these men, many of whom probably don’t like her or even respect women in general. Men will go to great lengths to smash. All of this superficial attraction and tricking will come to an abrupt halt for Winter in the next 3-4 years.
She’s also said that men call her “difficult” because she speaks her mind. No, if several men are saying this it’s probably because she’s unpleasant and the interactions with her feel transactional. Case in point she said last Christmas she went off on her ex-BF for giving her another expensive bracelet and not something else. And she demanded he pay her credit cards off if he wanted her to stay and calm down. Then she said after he gave her $15K for her birthday and they broke up, she was hesitant to send him the rest of his stuff without receiving the birthday jewelry he promised her before they broke up. Toxic toxic toxic!
Chy on the other hand speaks her mind but she’s a seemingly very pleasant person. Attractive without surgeries, humble, spiritual, not materialistic. If Chy expanded her dating pool a lot of marriage-minded men would love to be with her.