UPDATE: Major improvements over a day, citing threats of CPS.

Turns out Jen is in the hospital and is having a breached pregnancy. I’m not really familiar with what that means medically and in this case legally so feel free to fill me in.

I addressed Kyle over Facebook messages and told him that I was gonna be demanding swift and punctual actions from Dev(Jen in hospital) and that if he doesn’t back me then I’ll blow the whistle on Dev and he can deal with the consequences of allowing these things to happen.

I then stayed up until I first seen Dev at like 6:30 A.M, I said “It makes me uncomfortable to even have to say this but clean the fucking bathtub, get rid of your trash and the waste of yours and your cat’s and the cats need to go as well. She says “what is that in the bathtub?” I said “Dev it’s your piss, don’t act stupid” and she responds saying all I had to do was ask her. This is at the threat of CPS and being kicked out, mind you. Imagine that, such a deplorable human.

I told her that it’s concerning to me that she doesn’t consider the health implications on her and her family and she gave some BS response about how it’s hard being a mom or whatever. I blocked it out, I’m sure it’s hard being a mom but it’s not hard to not neglect your kids.

I ended the conversation by reiterating my demands for the entire house to be cleaned, cats to be rehomed, water and trash be removed and that the kids should stay at their dads(already there btw) until shit changed.

Some interesting developments over the day though. *Jen is in the hospital with a breached pregnancy. *all cats gone. *mold, trash and other harmful waste has been cleaned.

But guess what chat. GUESS FKIN WHAT! Over the course of the day, I came to the conclusion that these changes were more than likely a temporary fix to refrain from being removed or her being reported to CPS. Sooo, I told Ken she has until the 5th to leave and that if he don’t have the ball’s to enforce it, I will. Contrary to what I expected, he simply obliged. Come the 5th, she’s GONE!

I feel way better knowing everyone is safe and that we’ll be relieved of this stain on society in just a few days. I don’t have to call on Jen because I’m sure they already know. The cats have been placed with coworkers and the house is in way better shape. Not perfect, but we’re reclaiming our home.

As for people telling me I should relocate, I was homeless for a year before moving here so I don’t have many options for an outing. Yes, I’m afraid of Kyle making such negatively impactful decisions again in the future. In a perfect world, I’d still leave considering even the positive changes. The standards for living here are just frustrating; being homeless made me cherish cleanliness, tranquility and oneness in one’s own space.

I’ll be moving 10 hours away in May. I’ve considered making a gofundme to help me get an Airbnb or something until then. Does anyone know if that’s a good idea? Would anyone help me share it? I’m just scared because her may switch up on the 5th because she’s prone to emotionally manipulating him and that’ll devastate me.

There have been small moments of “hey Dev will you please clean your mess up” and it always comes back 10x worse. With every inch, she takes a few miles. I will be making a new update on the evening of the 5th and thanks to everyone that has shown me support. I have nobody but 2 kid sisters, my mom is a homeless addict and my dad died from leukemia when I was 4 months old. To see so much support from strangers on the internet, especially the DMs and $25 sent to me was truly a blessing and I’m so thankful! I also needed that push from you all to stand up to that situation the way I did!

Yes our bathtub is permanently stained with the filth of their existence….