Did I overreact for this?

My family and I celebrated Christmas yesterday, on the 24th. Our tradition is that my brother (an adult) and I go upstairs while “santa” puts the presents under the tree. Last Christmas, my parents put the presents under the tree while we were present and I was very upset (I don’t cope well with change at all). I told my parents that I was upset and asked if we could do it normally again next Christmas (which was yesterday).

Yesterday had already been very overwhelming: we went to a Christmas market and changed our whole routine and the Christmas market was very overwhelming. I almost cried. (My dad and brother also refuse/don’t know how, to accommodate me and are always very loud and touchy, so the 45 minute drive was pure hell) In the evening, my dad put the presents under the tree while my brother and I were present anyways, even though I asked everyone not to (my mom said that he was very excited and wanted to put them under the tree already.). As usual, we wanted to play some games after dinner, they sent me to my room because I was annoying them 🧍.

We ended up playing some games but my brother and dad were irritated, loud and touchy. I had a meltdown and my mom later asked me if I liked this Christmas. I said no and she was visibly sad. I feel very bad for upsetting her and I would like to know if I should’ve just lied and if I was overreacting by being so upset and ruining Christmas (once again).

Sorry this got so long, my question is, was I overreacting?