Dating a Gemini woman and she is confusing me, I'm lost.

Any Gemini females here can explain this behavior to me? please be as brutally honest as possible.

Scorpio here, I started dating a female Gemini so officially boyfriend & Girlfriend. I'm confused because:

• (Before the relationship) At first she started very hot and cold. I didn't force myself but once I stop texting she comes back after a while and initiates a convo herself..and we are back to texting again and so forth. I was careful not to show neediness or clinginess. As I Scorpio myself I hate clingy people.

-She leaves me on seen multiple times. Ignored a phone call one time. I don't double text and let her have her time until she responds. in which she sometimes only responds to half of what I had texted and just randomly disregards the rest. How come they call Gemini the queens of communication? I was confused.

-I thought to myself she aint interested lets move on i'm happy with being friends anyways but after 3 weeks she suddenly becomes hooked again this time seemed genuine and deep; morning texts, selfies etc..she shows care and jealousy... and we hit it off big time boyfriend & girlfriend. its been 90 days since. We exchanged gifts on valentines and things were awesome. She would call me mysterious at times and I didn't understand whether or not she is intrigued by it or annoyed?.

-Now after three months guys, she is back again showing inconsistency, late replies, overall disregarding and cold, its very humiliating at times. Felt like my space as a partner shrinked again in her attention zone almost lost and i have to work something out to gain it back, I became frustrated like I wasted 3 months trying to build a real intimacy that should be the foundation of a genuine long-term relationship only for her to get back to square one after 90 days. I felt kind of being led on or something.. Its just not right.

-I decided to break things up with her. I'm not the type to take bullshit from women in relationships. I gently told her that I have a strong feeling that she isn't ready for commitment yet and i'm out we can still be friends and wished her luck. But her reaction was very dramatic. She is begging me to come back again, crying over the phone texting me daily saying she will cut herself if i don't come back, posting sad stories on insta etc.. What should I do? Kindly share your thoughts I have a thick skin.