It's okay to say you're not into bigger dudes

not a question i know, but i think this had to be said, far too many men on here get to salty or even say it's offensive when someone gets rejected because of their weight and they tell them as much on the apps, as a bigger dude myself i would rather hear someone say or have that in their bio so i won't waste their time or my own

i've seen people get rejected because they were too tall or too short, or they're too skinny, had a speech impediment or they just sounded too gay, i've seen people here and other subs take less offense to that, but as soon as someone says they weigh too much, redditors get mad, it's ridiculous and it's a double-standard