[31 TM4A]EST USA Clingy Gremlin Looking for Partner C:

Hey hey! I'm an older ace guy trying to find that cute queer or T4T relationship of his dreams! C: Looking for someone to devote my time to and to cherish! This is a long post so please forgive me! ;w;
(I tend to post monthly so sorry if you're seeing this again! Howdy ho to those who have seen me before just passing through again\))

Some TLDRS to save you time:

  • 31 year old transman (he/him). Grey-Ace/Aego. Omni. Preference for he/hims but I'm open to any T4T or Queer 4 Queer! ^-^
  • I'm open to long-distance but I'm in the NE Tri-State area of EST USA in case distance matters to you C:
  • Not into poly, ENM, casual, or anything like that. I'm only looking for a serious monogamous long-term relationship. QPRs are not for me-sorry!
  • Not 420 friendly and I'm not comfortable having anyone who heavily drinks or uses any recreational drugs in my life. Very strict about this-I do not make exceptions. Please respect that- thank you!
  • Looking for someone who loves chatting and texting! Is good at socializing and likes to yap yap! I'm a huge yapper and am looking for someone who can keep up with me! C:< Not looking for people who think holding a conversation is only answering questions, short responses and talking about themselves! I got bad knees- I cannot hold up the conversation for both of us lol.

Okay onto my longer post! C: And it is long! Just a warning! Maybe grab a drink and snack haha. xD

About Me:

  • Chronically ill and neurospicy but both are managed and mild! ^^
  • I'm a soft guy/not very masc and I adore dressing up in cute clothes and accessories. I'm still finding my style but it's mostly just cute overalls haha. :P On T and top surgery is in Feb (so soon!). I'm a hairy teddy bear doing his best to be a magical boy.
  • I'm built like a steamed bun- small round and sometimes spicy. 5'5" and 270lbs (and that's after weight loss lol). I will probably always be plump so I hope that's okay with you and you still let me sit on your lap xD. Just sign this waiver that absolves me of any potentional leggy damages hahah.
  • Appearance: I have a lot of piercings and I have gauges. I wear pastel/bright clothes and just love anything and everything cute! Working on the confidence to wear whatever I want! ;v; A little fragile but will still hold your bags when you're shopping and push the cart. ):<
  • Likes: I love gaming (playing Skyrim again), Youtube, drawing/ocs, plushies, dolls, cute things/fashion, true crime/forensic shows, psychology, cats, FlightRising/ChickenSmoothie, and a little bit of crafts. Please share at least one interest with me! And must play video games! There are many things I would like to try out but haven't yet like Ren Faires, Cosplaying, Conventions, Crafting!
  • Dislikes: I'm not into politics, religion, Harry Potter, offensive humor, sports, and most outdoor activities (I do love walking around though!).

Looking For in Relationship:

  • A healthy monogamous long-term romantic relationship. Supportive and silly while growing and thriving together. Need someone who is good at conversations and communicating. Expressive, affectionate and emotionally mature/working on it. ^^ Someone who is okay with lots of affection, attention, physical touch and lots of quality time together. I can be a little clingy! ;v; Gaming/games are a huge part of my life so I would really prefer a partner who shared that interest/hobby.
  • As for compatibility, I'm sex averse (in general) and neutral(with a partner). Looking for a relationship that is mostly wholesome with a little spice. xD. I'm a sensual person and desire a sensual dynamic in a relationship- open to kinks too! If anyone lets me call them good boy/girl/whatever you prefer- I'd love you forever ;v;. I consider myself vers.
  • Really want a life partner type of deal! Where eventually we can settle down, be hella domestic doing laundry together, cooking and grocery shopping while also just enjoying each other's company. Gaming and cuddling anyone? ;v; I'm not rushing it though! Just an end goal! c:

Deal Breakers: (Maybe for you or me)

  • Chonky and not currently working but will later this year after surgery. Can't drive due to anxiety. Atheist. Pro-Choice and it's important. I'm def more left leaning/Leftist and would not get on well with conservatives. Not 420 Friendly/not into recreational drug use or heavy drinking.
  • I'm neurospicy with BPD/ADHD which means I might require a little bit more effort in a relationship but I will return the effort! <3 I am clingy though and do value consistent contact- just one quick text every now and then so I know you're alive is fine haha.
  • I'm ready for a healthy and mutually supportive relationship and I have worked really hard on myself to be able to get here. I have anxious attachment so if you're an avoidant person in any way- we will not work. I need someone who is able to address and discuss issues that come up in a timely fashion so we can work through things and not avoid it. v_v
  • I'm not a dog person. Scared of them in general. I can appreciate them from afar though lol. xD
  • I cannot relocate at this time and probably won't be able to for quite awhile. ^-^;; I have no interest in living in remote/small town areas. I need convenience and public transport!
  • About children: I am still unsure tbh. I think it would really depend on my partner and what kind of household we nurture. ^^ I'm also okay with remaining child-free.

If you read through my novel and want to reach out- please send me a chat! C: <3