Chonky Dog

Our Golden is 9 yrs old, 100% house trained and doesn’t chew. She’s the perfect guest. But she is heavier than allowed in most listings. Is it considered a bad thing if we ask if we could get an exception for size? We don’t complain if the answer is no but we do ask. She no longer deals with boarding very well. She doesn’t eat and barely drank water the last two times we’ve left her so that is no longer an option.