Meeting girl I met online
Problem/goal: Hello folks,
I know the question was around quite a few times the last years, but I still put it here in hope to get some advice, maybe also from people knowing the Philippines well. About a year ago I met a girl from Manila online. We talked a lot, both via text and video and shared our daily life's with each other, everything from her moving to different cities and me traveling around quite a few places. Additionally lots of random staff like what meals we ate and so on. She started asking me to meet her in Manila since a longer time and basically I want. She's nice, we are into each other and she doesn't have obvious red flags like directly asking for money or something. (I still send a bit but that's another story) Of course I know she's pretty poor though. She's full of temperament and ignores me for one or two weeks if she thinks she's not important enough to me. She also wants to emigrate to my country but wants to wait with the decision until we met. Of course I know that there could be several problems meeting her. I'm not really concerned about being scammed or something. We wanted to meet in a hotel I choose, not at her home or anything. I still started to think if it could be dangerous somehow to sleep in the same room with someone I didn't meet before. I wonder that she isn't concerned tbh, she also says she wants to have sex and feel if we match together (which may be a good idea, but not sure if it's quite typical for a Filipina). Marriage in the foreseeable future is sth she wants. I adore her oc so it's a hard decision. I want her but also don't want to be robbed or kidnapped for ransom or something. Despite that I heard and read that Manila itself is pretty poor and unsafe and there's not much to do. Other places are not really an option though. Who already met a woman under these circumstances, with no real red flags, at least not visible? How did it go? Which red flags which I may not know but should I consider? Sorry for the long text and thx for reading, I'm really unsure. Don't want to make her sad and definitely want to meet her, but also don't want to be stupid.
I tried to organize sth in another country but noticed this isn't possible due to ph immigration laws regarding departing citizens. So it's just visiting or not.