Im 8 years older than her.

My partner (F25) and I (F33) have been in a relationship for a year now. Isang taon na rin kaming halos araw - araw may argument or tampuhan. I think it's because of the age difference most of the time. She never listens to me or acknowledges my advices kasi daw I should let her experience it. Pero kung ibang tao na mas matanda sknya ang nag sasabi at nag aadvice pinapakinggan niya. Di niya daw ako tita para pakinggan niya. Napapagod na din ako madalas sa away at bangayan. She made a lot decisions na I advised not to take but she didnt listen. Ang ending, nangyari ung sinasabi ko. Either napahamak siya or di maganda ung kinalabasan ng decision niya. I feel under valued.

Tutuloy ko pa ba to? Mali ba nararamdaman ko? Tanga ba ko? Hahaha

Edit: Thank you to everyone who commented and shared their thoughts and gave advices. Gusto ko lang i-clarify na I don't give out advice like a parent and if you look at your partner like a parent when they're giving out advices naku evaluate niyo po childhood traumas niyo 😅 I don't always give advice din po only when I know it's going to be detrimental sknya or samin or if napagdaanan ko na and it didn't turn out good. I tell her what I did, why it didn't go well. I do acknowledge that prolly my approach was the problem because it might come off as im judging her. Giving advice to your partners doesn't mean you're controlling them and if you see them parenting you dahil nagpayo sila instead of seeing it as a form of love and comfort, baka may trauma kayo from parents? Hehe thank you everyone tho :)