I’m struggling with Mat

I just finished A. Crown of Swords. I know Mat is a fan favourite, but I am struggling with liking him. I know he is charming, cunning and cares for people (despite what he thinks). But his lack of insight and the sexist ways his internal monologue goes on about women really makes me dislike him.The way he generalizes about all women and does not respect Egwene, Nyaneve and Elayne grinds my gears. He completely disregards their power and authority - and he thinks all women are dumb, seemingly. I also hated that he seemed not to care that Moraine died and thinks often about how Rand got him into this mess. Take some accountability!

Is it just me? Does he get easier to like? What am I missing?

And just for the record, I was horrified and felt a lot of sympathy for him after what happened with Tylin.

I know the three women also are at fault in their dynamic with him. And I see that Nyaneve parallels him in many ways, but she has been humbled and evolved some, therefore it’s a bit easier to sympathise with her. She if framed as more nuanced. Although I also hope she evolves further, and recognises him and takes him seriously as well.