Why do some men feel uncomfortable helping their wives with housework?

Many men feel that housework is solely the woman’s responsibility. This belief stems from old cultural ideas that define men as the breadwinners and women as caretakers of the home. Unfortunately, this belief often causes tension and prevents cooperation between spouses.

However, when we look at the life of the Prophet of Islam (peace be upon him) we see a different picture. He was always involved in helping his family with household tasks. As his wife Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "He used to be in the service of his family, and when the prayer time came, he would go out to pray." (Sahih)

This shows how the Prophet of Islam actively participated in household chores, reflecting his humility and love for his family.

Do you think that a husband helping his wife with housework strengthens their relationship? And do you help your wife with housework?