New thrower! Needing help

Hey guys, hope you're all well.

My wife got me a yoyo for Xmas and like the vast majority I haven't touched one in about 22 years... throwing straight is hard enough, I can do the normal binding now quite easily which is so cool!

How the hell do i land the trapeze... I've managed to do it flawlessly ONCE and was so shocked I literally let go, the yoyo bound and smacked me.

Is there some actual beginner tips, every video I see is basically gentry just smashing it out like it's his job.. and I don't see any actual slowed down beginner videos.

Any help is appreciated ♥️